July 2, 2023

What it means to love Jesus

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Passage: John 21:1-19
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Introduction

  • Looking at v15-19 this morning
  • Our series looking at the life of Simon Peter
    • Recap of his life - 1:1 evangelism, the holiness of Jesus, the grace of Jesus, the beginnings of a disciple, how he went on (with ups & downs, learning about forgiveness and submission to God's will, looking to Jesus, a contrast)
  • Looking at v15-19 this morning:
    • Jesus will ask three penetrating questions
      • This was to be the biggest lesson he would ever learn
        • "...do you love Me?"
      • It is not about how much theology we know but whether we love Jesus
      • What does it really mean to love Jesus
  • Overview:
    • His response - the proof that Simon Peter loved Jesus
    • The three fold interchange - looking at different Greek words
    • What does it really mean to love Jesus?

The proof that Simon Peter loved Jesus

  • He told Jesus that he loved Him
  • It is easy to call out Peter's failures
    • We forget that Christians are at different stages - immature, still growing
    • We need to look at our own hearts
    • We should not be surprised by his failings - he is a sinner like us
  • Peter had real love for Jesus
    • John 6:66 many disciples turned their back on Jesus
      • We find this in Church - examples
      • Peter states "Lord, to whom shall we go? You have the words of eternal life" John 6:68
    • Example of the Transfiguration and defending Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane
    • That he left everything to follow Jesus
  • We must stir each other up to good works, continue meeting
    • We must realise that people will make mistakes - whether loud or quiet
    • We should be patient and kind to each other
    • We are all in the process of growth
    • We must love each other and the Lord Jesus Christ

The three fold interchange - looking at different Greek words

  • v15, 16 - agape, v17 - phileo
  • Peter had denies Jesus three times
  • Jesus had revealed Himself to 5 disciples
    • He was particularly concerned for Simon Peter
    • Mark 16:7 - Jesus sends a message to Peter
    • Jesus had a private appearance to Simon Peter - Luke 24:34
  • The context:
    • The disciples had been fishing and caught nothing
    • This reminds us of Luke 5
    • They speak to Jesus and cast their nets on the other side of the boat
    • There is a miraculous catch of fish
    • Peter goes to Jesus as quickly as he can
    • Jesus is cooking breakfast for them
    • After breakfast Jesus speaks to Simon Peter
  • Jesus wants to restore and commission Peter - first by questioning his heart
    • He addresses him as Simon son of Jonah - a sinner
    • Do you agape love me - do you have an unconditional love, a high love, a deep love? (v15)
      • Simon Peter is humbled - he responds that he phileo loves
      • But Jesus asks do you love Me more than these?
        • In the neutral voice - not people but objects / his trade / his life
    • Do you agape love me - do you have an unconditional love, a high love, a deep love? (v16)
      • The same answer
    • Do you phileo love me - do you have the intimate love of a friend? (v17)
      • Peter struggles with this
      • Peter knows that Jesus knows' his heart
      • Peter would never forget this and perhaps brought this question to remembrance at different times of his life
    • What about us this morning?
      • We can readily accept theology - examples
      • But do we love Jesus?
        • Oh that we respond - 'yes Lord, you know that we love you'

What does it really mean to love Jesus?

  • Jesus is saying if you love Me - love the Church and serve
    • Peter will be a shepherd - not to return to secular fishing/work
    • Peter is to preach the word and be an evangelist
    • Peter is to look after them, remembering that they will be wayward and led astray
  • Jesus loved all His disciples
    • Example of washing the disciples feet
    • We are called to love all God's people
    • Peter is to love all God's people
  • Peter's responsibilities to the Church - examples
    • This would be the proof he loved Jesus and God's people
  • We are so called to look out for those within the Church
    • We are called to bring others to Christ
    • We are to sit under the word
    • We are to support leaders
    • We are part of a body
    • We love Jesus in loving the Church
  • Do we feel we have blown it, lack gifts - Jesus restores His people
    • He is able to restore you and me
  • When He asks if we love him?
    • May we respond yes
    • May we follow Jesus