Relationships: judgment, comparisons and motivation
Introduction
How does this relate to me?
God’s word always has something to teach us
We see the passage in context
3 questions:
How do I judge?
How do I see myself in relation to others?
What motivates me?
How do I judge?
We have seen how Paul has been unfairly and harshly judged
Paul has to defend himself – examples
The people had come in stealthily but became people of influence
They said Paul was domineering in letters but weak in presence
That he was double-minded
Who were these people?
"Super apostles"
Trained in eloquent speech / gift orators
Paul preached in the power of the Holy Spirit
They lifted themselves up
They sought to destroy Paul by defaming him
2 Cor 11:13-14 – false apostles, deceitful, workers of Satan
2 Cor 11:22 – sophisticated Jews
2 Cor 11:5 – eminent apostles
2 Cor 11:3-4 – they could dupe the church and remove the clear focus of the gospel message – Christ
Churches can shift over time
It can begin with people teaching errant doctrines
Do not look at the outward appearance (v7)
John 7:24 – "Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment."
Be discerning
See their fruits
Know them
Example of the 3 crosses – the Saviour of the World
Example from Luke 16:19-31
Are there any superior Christians?
No – we all belong to Christ
We have stages in our growth – but there is not a two tier Christianity
This is a false teaching
Be aware of those who seem super spiritual
Paul has authority over the Church (v8)
But he is not to beat them with a rod but to build them up
Paul could not be impeached on his character
2 Cor 1:23-24 – he came to edify
2 Cor 11:11 – he loves them
2 Cor 12:15 – he is willing to be spent for them
Not against doctrinal issues but against him personally
Paul is helping them to make a right judgment about him
2 Cor 11:12
Application – how to judge with righteous judgment:
We need a gracious spirit – examples
Be careful with hearsay … and gossip – examples
Be careful of wolves in sheep’s clothing
Do not be nullable – test all things
How do I see myself in relation to others?
Do we compare ourselves? – examples
Paul did not compare himself to others (v12)
Example
It is foolish and unwise to live like this
Paul only lived before God – 2 Cor 5:9-10, 1 Cor 4:3-4
Do not compare yourselves to others – but live for God
Pride is carnal
Pride is a cause of division – examples
Encourage one another
Do not trample on others (v13-14)
John 4:38 – God gives the increase
Work in your own sphere
Example
Do not have rivalry or take credit from other’s work
Think about your relationships with others
What about ourselves?
Work – examples
Home – examples
What motivates me?
The motivations of the super apostles (examples) – 2 Cor 12:21
May things be a long way from us
Quote from Stuart Olliet
What do we boast in?
A difference between being thankful and showing off
Jer 9:23-24
Boast in God
Paul boasted in the cross of Christ
Let us magnify the Lord together
Give God the glory – Quote from John Newton