September 25, 2022

Reconciliation and Forgiveness in the life of Joseph

Preacher:
Passage: Genesis 44:14-45:11
Service Type:
  • Reading Gen 45:4-7
  • Looking at Reconciliation and Forgiveness in the life of Joseph
  • Introductory comments
    • Sold as a slave aged 17
    • Came to prominence aged 30
    • There had been seven years of abundance
    • The famine had been present for 2 years
    • He has not seen his brothers for nearly 20 years
  • What did the brothers feel when Joseph revealed who he was
    • This is a wonderful example of reconciliation and forgiveness
    • Things we do can have long-term consequences
  •  Overview:
    • Jacob had gone to his relatives seeking a wife
      • He had been tricked into marrying another woman
      • He ended up with two wives which caused jealousy
      • There were favourite children
      • There was jealously amongst the family / brothers
    • The brothers hated Joseph and planned to kill him
      • Instead they sold him into slavery and told Jacob he had died
    • Joseph was sold to Egypt went to various trials and difficulties
      • Potiphar and his wife
      • Butler and baker
    • The brothers were experiencing guilt and fear - they were a dysfunctional family
      • Our lives can be dysfunctional
      • Things may not be resolved and consequences arise
    • The Lord was with Joseph
      • He had prospered in Egypt despite all the difficulties against him
      • He had a spirit of God
      • He is elevated to second in command, only lower than Pharaoh
    • His sons were called Manasseh and Ephraim
      • The names had special meanings
      • God had comforted him
  • Often in the darkest of times - God is with us
    • Quote from song
    • God provides grace
    • Example of congregant with motor neuron disease
  • God's grace had helped Joseph come to the point where he could forgive his brothers
    • He does not punish them
    • The brothers had not repented of their son (though they did regret it)
    • Yet Joseph was willing to forgive them
    • The problem was with the brothers and through God's sustaining grace he had not become bitter
    • God blesses us through painful experiences
  • God tests us and provides for us
    • There was seven years of terrible famine
    • It was a test of the faith to trust God
    • It became the means of Joseph and his brothers being reconciled
      • An example of providence
    • As we look back in our lives - do we see God's guiding hand?
  • The consequences of living with unforgiven sin in the brothers
    • They had lied to their father
    • Joseph questions the brothers, implying they are spies
      • The brothers report they are honest - but they are not truthful
      • They have not told their father the truth
      • They have a conspiracy of silence
    • The father (Jacob) does not trust the sons because of the earlier 'death' of Joseph
      • He will not send Benjamin with the brothers
    • We are 'honest men'
      • We did a terrible thing many years, but since then we have tried to live correctly
        • Example
      • It had not resolved the issue nor there guilt
      • They did not want to face up to the truth
    • They had a guilty conscience
      • They felt they were being punished because of their brother
        • Reuben had tried to warn them, but they did not listen
        • They felt God was against them
      • They tried to make atonement
        • Reuben swore to bring Benjamin back
      • They had a fear of punishment
        • Especially when they found the money in their packs (an act of kindness from Joseph)
        • Example of hymn lyrics
    • Do you have things in your past that you have not faced up?
      • Do you feel guilty?
      • Have you reconciled these things?
  • God is moving things to the point of reconciliation - through a problem with a cup [today's reading]
    • There appears to be a change in the brothers
      • They bow down before him (as per the prophetic dream)
      • God is fulfilling His promise and providing for Joseph and his family
    • Jacob thinks all is against him, but God is working
      • Judah pleads to stay in Benjamin's place
      • Joseph turns aside to cry
    • Joseph reveals himself
      • He is not angry with them
      • He does not excuse their behaviour
      • He is loving towards them
      • There is a wonderful time of reconciliation
    • God's family is a place with reconciliation needs to occur
      • If not, this is so sad and destructive
      • There is a wonderful power in forgiveness
      • Quote (long) from book by Cory Ten Boom
    • The love of God was brought about in Joseph's situation
      • Joseph was a type of Jesus
      • Jesus came into the world to seek and save the lost - to bring forgiveness of sin