October 22, 2023

Do not be Unequally Yoked

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Passage: 2 Corinthians 6:4-7:1
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Introduction

  • Another challenging passage - v14
  • To consider what this means 'do not be unequally yoked'
    • We need to ask God to search our hearts
  • Heb 12:1 - to lay aside every weight and snare
    • Sin strangles the Christian, it can become woven around our hearts, it becomes a web of sin
    • Examples
  • Some very plain speech - do not be unequally yoked, all ungodly associations, anything that will bind and corrupt you
  • Paul has become concerned for the Corinthians
    • They have become quiet
      • They are not opening up with him - almost cutting him off
      • v11-13
    • Paul wants them to be open with him
      • Paul is being open with them
  • Paul says there is a paradox about he and the disciples – v8-10
  • Paul wants them to be separate from all worldly standards
    • He uses Old Testament verses
  • Do not be unequally yoked
    • Not just marriage
    • Pagan festivals
    • 1 Cor 11 - too much wine (maybe at parties)
    • Things that seemed neutral that weren't - but pagan
  • Overview:
    • What this does not mean
    • What is does mean
    • How it applies to us

What this does not mean

  • That you cannot associate or have friends with non-Christians
    • 1 Cor 5:9-11
    • In the Church - to separate yourself from believers who are acting immorally or sinfully
      • Pray for them, call them to repent
    • There might be limits on friendship with non-Christians
  • Not just speaking about marriage but idolatry and immorality
    • v16
      • How can you go to temples and participate in pagan worship?
      • How can you pray with parents to idols?
    • 7:1 - Paul commanded the Corinthians to cleanse themselves

What is does mean

  • Paul borrows Old Testament imagery
    • Deut 22:10 - A donkey should not be unequally yoked to an ox
      • The ox may damage the donkey
    • If you enter into binding situations, you can become damaged or corrupted
      • Examples
      • When you become a Christian - your lifestyle must change
  • It does mean choice of marriage partner - since this is the deepest tie
    • You become one with your spouse - joined by God
    • Why would a believer want to join with an unbeliever - two fundamentally different world views
      • People may think God will save their spouse - He may
      • Often the unbeliever drags the believer away from God
    • 1 Cor 7, 1 Pet 3 - you will always have Christians married to non-Christians
      • Where one is saved and the other not
      • Not to separate but to witness to them
  • Fellowship, communion, accord, part, agreement - contrasted against ...
    • Lawlessness, darkness, Belial, unbeliever
      • Christians are not superior - by God's grace we are saved
    • Eph 5:5-11 – the Bible is very clear
      • 1 Pet 4:3
  • What do you do if you see a Christian returning to this lifestyle?
    • Warn them
    • Pull them out of the fire
  • We are not to be conformed to the world but live a life of separation - v17
    • Are we separate, distinct, different?
  • Perfect holiness in the fear of God - 7:1
    • Examples
    • James 1:27

How it applies to us

  • As a church body
    • We are autonomous and self-governing
    • We have wider fellowship (with Gospel believing churches) - specifically within the AECW
    • We cannot have fellowship with those who deny the word of God - examples
    • We must be careful about those we accept into membership
  • As individuals
    • James 4:4
      • Example
    • We cannot follow two masters:
      • God and this world
      • God and money - consider how much we are spending on ourselves vs what we are giving to the Lord
    • Are you different?
      • Do you value the huge sacrifice of Jesus Christ?
      • What difference does that mean in reality?
      • 1 John 2:15-16
      • True satisfaction, life and joy is found in Jesus
      • The blessings of fellowship with God - v16,18
  • Do not be unequally yoked