December 4, 2022

Love is not self centred

Preacher:
Passage: 1 Corinthians 13:5
Service Type:

Introduction

  • Considering one verse - v5
  • Paul is spending a whole chapter on love because of the problems in the Corinthian Church
    • Examples
    • The Spirit of Jesus is the Spirit of love
    • We have the Holy Spirit so that the love of God will be poured out in our hearts
  • This Church felt it was spiritual, powerful and a model to others
    • It was no example
    • It lacked love
    • It was carnal and immature
  • Love is not carnal, not rude, it respects others, it does not show contempt, it is kind
    • It is not rude
    • It is not about ourselves but serving others
    • It is not provoked or easily offended
    • It is not evil - 1 Peter 2:20
      • Examples of how Jesus was provoked
      • This love is supernatural - the love of God
    • It is not fault finding
  • As we come to the Communion table tonight
    • Test our thoughts
    • Test our reactions
    • Test our motivation

Test our thoughts

  • As a man thinks - so he is
  • Out of the heart - come evil thoughts
    • Are our hearts governed by the love of God?
    • Is the love of Christ winning this battle?
  • Does our interior match our exterior?
    • God knows what is on the inside?
    • Is it love that motivates and drives us?
  • The Corinthians acted carnally - examples
    • When you come to the Communion table - you come to remember Christ
  • What are out thoughts like?
    • Proud - examples
    • Rude - examples
    • Self-seeking (revolving around ourselves) - examples
      • Jesus emptied Himself - though He was equal with/was God
  • Are you convicted by this?
    • It is only Jesus who fulfils all these requirements
    • We are full of sin - yet we can seek after these characteristics of love, we are to be like Christ, we are to walk in His footsteps
    • We need to pray that God would make us more like Jesus
  • What are your thoughts?

Test our reactions

  • How do you respond when someone attacks or provokes you?
    • Do we pity, love, think the best of them, consider they might be having a bad day, wonder if something is going on in their life?
    • Do we consider if we have acted in similar ways - so we modify our behaviour?
  • How irritable are you?
    • Are you prickly?
    • Listen to what people say of you
  • Think of Jesus before the Sanhedrin and Pilate
    • Think how He was treated - examples
    • Think how He was provoked
  • Yet He is governed by the grace of God
    • If we understand that God is for us, that nothing can separate us from the love of God
    • When provocation comes - God can teach us not to respond in kind
    • God can do this when we are seeking God, in prayer and walking in the spirit
  • What are your reactions?

Test our motivation

  • Does the love of Christ motivate us?
    • Love for sinners motivated Christ to come from heaven
    • He was willing to die for us on the cross
    • His love covered all our sins
    • He choose to remember our sins no more
    • He has completely forgive our sins
  • What about us?
    • Love thinks no evil - or better translated 'keeps no record of wrongs'
      • We keep no mental tally
      • We choose to remember no more
      • Quote
      • Do we draw a persons' past failings into the present?
    • Are we motivated by grace and love?
      • Various Quotes from Jonathan Edwards
      • How quick we can be to judge others and magnify others - instead of being kind and forgiving?
  • What are your motivations?

Closing Remarks

  • As we approach the Communion table
    • Do not be like the 'disciples of thunder'
    • Do not have rivalry like the apostles
  • Remember there is forgiveness and full redemption at the cross
  • Consecrate yourself again to God