September 27, 2020

The Delays of Love

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Passage: John 11:1-16
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Introduction

  • Imagine a scenario
    • A medical emergency - calling the Emergency Services
      • What happens next?
    • 8 minutes for a Category A ambulance - not 4 days as in the case with Lazarus
  • Human do not like waiting
    • Delays often have consequences
    • Humans cause delay
    • We often think there can be delays with God
      • Does it appear that Jesus is indifferent to Lazarus?
      • Do you feel that God is delayed in an are of your life?
    • We forget how things work in life
      • Is it not often that delays are an ideal learning experience?
      • Personal example - often you have to go down before you can go up
      • Delays can hurt, but they often move us to a higher mountain
  • Overview: four things about this delay

A Loving Delay (v5)

  • Mary and Martha loved the Lord Jesus
    • Jesus loved both Mary and Martha
    • Jesus loved Lazarus
    • Explanation
  • He loved them all by name
    • He loved them with a human love
    • He loved them with a divine love
    • v3 & v 35 - phileo: friendship love [human]
    • v5 - agape: self-sacrifical love [divine]
  • Personal example of son
  • v5 - Because Jesus loved them: Jesus was going to do something for them
    • His divine love for them was the reason for the delay
    • The reason for the delay was because Jesus loved them
  • God has big love for us
    • God loves us more than just to give us a comfortable life

A Complete Delay (v6)

  • People were expecting a healing miracle - but something special for Jesus' friend
    • However, Jesus did nothing
  • We do not have a God of infinite predictability
    • We cannot tell what God will do
    • In this passage - God did the opposite of what we thought He would do
  • He delayed
    • A knowledgeable delay
    • A silent delay
    • A long delay - two days
    • A voluntary delay
  • Jesus could have healed Lazarus with one look, word or thought
    • How can this be?
    • In God's big love there is room enough for mystery
    • Examples - C. S. Lewis
      • Don't play the blame game
      • Has God given you something to keep you going - v4
      • Keep looking in the right direction

A Tragic Delay

  • What happened during those two days of delay?
    • Two examples:
      • A visitor to Lazarus was saved
      • Stayed on the level
  • No - he died
    • The worst case scenario
    • Elaboration
  • It was a family loss
  • Deep spiritual confusion
    • The Lord Jesus did not come for Lazarus - elaboration
    • Isaiah 63:
      • In all our affliction - He is afflicted
      • God has not finished yet

A Blessed Delay (v14)

  • "Purpose"
    • Whatever our suffering or delay - God has a purpose
    • So often it is that 'we might believe'
  • v15 - Jesus was glad / He 'rejoiced'
    • He rejoices at the prospect of growing faith
    • You can see the limits of Mary and Martha's faith
      • They believed he could be healed
      • They did not believe he could be raised from the dead
    • Our there limits to our faith?
    • Example

Closing Remarks

  • Sometimes for faith to grow - it has to go down into the valley before going up to the taller mountain
    • We don't always understand why the Lord delays
    • Two options:
      1. We can wait for eternity and look back on the delay and thank God
      2. We can thank Him now - when we don't understand